Saturday, August 25, 2012

Fall neighborhood festival


Our neighborhood, Momijigaokacho, had it's biggest festival of the year today. It was lots of fun with tons of great things going on. There were toys and games for the boys, fun foods, karaoke, and the cutest part was that most of the kids were dressed in their festival clothes for the occasion. We had fun chatting with our neighbors and met up with 2 different Navy families that also live in our neighborhood. They were easy to spot!
 
Nathan was unstoppable in the adult competitions they had throughout the night. He had a blast and won 30 (!) eggs for winning a drinking contest and some ramen and canned coffee for the tug of war championship. Here are some short videos.
 
 
After the drinking event, I caught the boys doing this with their slushie cups - wonder where they picked it up!
 
 
Next up was tug of war where they had very official brackets and Nathan's team finished first. I think we're shouting pull in Japanese in the video? I just went with the crowd and tried to make sure Wilson didn't try to help!
 
 
The best food we tried all night was a whole bbq'd squid on a kabob stick. It had a kind of teriyaki sauce on it that was pretty tasty. The squid itself was very chewy and good!
 
 
I think this is the last neighborhood festival for a while, but we're big fans and can't wait for the next one!

Friday, August 24, 2012

Play and living rooms

Playroom before:
 

And after:
 
 
The playroom is supposed to be the nice ceremonial tatami room in the house. It has the rice paper windows and a raised wood area. Japanese families typically display their family's heirloom swords and things of that nature in the room. Needless to say, the few Japanese workers that have been in and out of the house since we've moved in have always given us weird looks when they notice we've turned it into a playroom. Who knows, by the time we leave here we may have converted it in to a place for all of our ceremonial loot!
 
Some nice features of the room are a closet to hold excess toys and sliding doors to close when we've shoved all the toys back into the room and don't feel like putting them away.
 
 
 
 
If I'm being totally honest, here is a pic of how the playroom normally looks. Kind of reminds me a little too much of the first before picture!
 
 
 We love having the boys' playroom right next to the living room because it lets us have our adult area without being buried in toys. We're loving our new Japanese couch and chairs but are still in the market for a Japanese coffee table. The furniture here is much lower than American furniture, so our coffee table isn't really working. When we find one, we'll move this one up to the TV room to go with Nathan's beloved comfy, grey couch which I lovingly call Big Ugly.
 
 
Well, that's the end of the photo tour of areas that are unpacked. The rest of the house is still coming together, but I'll post pics when we're done!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Kitchen


Our kitchen is tiny! I've never really needed a big kitchen, so it'll work for us. The pros of the kitchen are that it's in a great location, there was room for a large fridge by Japanese standards, the sink is huge, tons of cabinet storage space, room for my kitchen rack, gas stove (my first - love it!) and there's a dishwasher. The cons are that there's not much counter space, the cabinets are either really low or really high, only 1 person fits comfortably and there is NO OVEN! Not sure how I'm going to live without my cheese manicotti for 3 years, but somehow we haven't starved yet. A friend on base has already offered to let me use her American oven to make cupcakes a couple times a year for the boys - so I was glad we'll still be able to have birthdays over here!
 
Here's a view from the dining table.
 
 
This is the counter top that I just call appliance hell. We have loved our conventional oven since we're missing the big one. Some of the wives have told me they've cooked whole chickens and lasagnas in theirs - we'll see!
 
 
Here are a few views from the kitchen looking out. You can see the raised tatami area behind our dining table that we haven't figured out what to do with yet. I think the Japanese use it for their tea tables, but we're not sure what to do with it yet. Any suggestions are appreciated!
 
 
 
It feels so good having the kitchen unpacked. Next up I'll post pics of the living room and playroom. They're both mostly done. I've been meaning to post pics for a few days, but somehow when I clean up the playroom it never stays that way long enough to get a pic!

Beer tasting

We've been having fun trying some Japanese beers. The store near our house is a fun place to get them because they have a different selection every time we go. Mostly the beers we've tried have tasted like regular lagers, but some have been really good. We had a great seasonal one last night. We should be experts on the good ones pretty soon. Then we'll have to tackle sake!
 
I haven't gotten pictures of most of them, but here are a couple that we sampled. This is a funny small can of Kirin beer. The beer was so-so but we had a good laugh feeling like giants and finishing them in 2 sips.
 
 
Here was one Nathan found and was really excited about. It ended up not being a beer at all and tasted like an alcoholic Red Bull.  We weren't really big fans. Cool bottle though!
 
 
 
UPDATE: We had a can of the really good seasonal beer left in the fridge. Isn't the can with the autumn leaves pretty?
 
 


Unpacking

Some of you may be wondering how unpacking is going.  We're either doing incredibly awesome or incredibly terrible depending on which areas of the house you look at!
  
Here's a little taste of what the areas of our house that we don't use that much look like...
  
  
It's our guest bedroom. Hope no one is planning a surprise visit for this weekend! We promise to have it raked out by the time we do have visitors - and hopefully sooner!


Friday, August 17, 2012

Work

I know many of you have been asking about how Nathan's job (the actual reason we're here!) has been going.  I asked him to do a guest blog to fill everyone in on his work here. So here it is from the man in uniform himself.



My position in Sasebo is very different than the one I had at Walter Reed Bethesda. In Bethesda I was one of 50 psychologists. My role was to basically fill gaps and provide care where needed. But in Sasebo, I’m it. The mental health clinic here has a staff of one. I don’t have the luxury of being able to refer my patients elsewhere. I’m somewhat of a family doctor in that I see anything and everything under the sun.

Most of my day is spent providing outpatient care to sailors and their dependents. My caseload is extremely diverse, and in just two months I have seen patients with major depression, bipolar disorder, Aspergers, ADHD, cognitive disorder, alcohol abuse and dependence, drug abuse, schizoaffective disorder, brief psychotic disorder, panic disorder, PTSD, obsessive-compulsive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, body dysmorphic disorder, dissociative amnesia, gender identity disorder, insomnia, narcolepsy, nightmare disorder, intermittent explosive disorder, gambling addiction, adjustment disorder, borderline personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder, and of course non-diagnosable problems like marital difficulties, infidelity, work-related stress, parenting problems, etc. Then there are people who come in to see me who don’t fall into any category. So it stays pretty interesting. Every day is different. I never know who will walk through the door.


Because Sasebo is a base consisting mostly of forward-deployed units, the vast majority of the patients I see are sailors assigned to sea duty. They spend as much as six months out of the year out at sea. You can imagine the stress this puts on them, their spouses, and their children. I’ve already learned that my workload increases exponentially the week before the ships go out to sea and the week the ships return. One might think that my workload decreases when the ships are out to sea, but so far that has not been the case. First of all, there are always some ships in port at any given time. But when the big ships leave, that’s when I tend to see more of the spouses. Also, I regularly do assessments on patients who get medevaced off the ships for psychiatric reasons. 




The base is small (Fleet Activities Sasebo holds roughly 5,000 sailors and dependents, although this number varies greatly depending on what ships are in port), and the services we offer are quite limited. Our facility is not a hospital but rather an outpatient clinic. There is no inpatient unit here, so when sailors show up with suicidal or homicidal thoughts or in the throes of a psychotic episode, I have to coordinate to get them flown to Okinawa for inpatient treatment. 

One big drawback of my job is that people know the psychologist is one of the few people who can get you OUT of the Navy. An unfortunate nickname for Navy psychologists is “wizards” because we supposedly make people “disappear.” The sailors know this. So just about every homesick kid who wants out of the Navy makes an appointment with me and tries to create a story about why he/she is mentally unfit to be in the Navy. Some of the stories are quite entertaining…and creative! The most common way people try to get out of the Navy is by telling someone in their command that they want to commit suicide. This of course incites panic because no commanding officer wants a suicide on HIS watch. So the immediate reaction is to send the sailor directly to me for a complete psychiatric evaluation. Nine times out of ten the person is not actually suicidal but just wants to go home. So I see a lot of people who just want out, and that gets old. Imagine the agony of being 20 years old and having to travel to Singapore, Malaysia, Hong Kong, The Philippines, Australia, Guam, Okinawa, Indonesia, and Thailand. Sheer torture!


But overall, I really love what I’m doing. I’m the psychological “expert” on base, and I have a lot of freedom to run my department (of one) how I see fit. I feel supported by my command and am really happy to be working on a true working naval base with real sailors. I’ve had chances to tour the ships and to learn a ton about how the fleet operates. I feel like I’ve learned more here about the Navy so far than I did in the 8 months I spent in Bethesda. The work here is more challenging; the hours are longer; but I wouldn’t want to be doing anything else right now. It really does feel like a once in a lifetime opportunity.

Visiting Auggie



Auggie fans around the world will be happy to hear that she's only got a month left at Paws and Claws! The boys and I try to make it in to visit about once a week and Nathan goes a couple times a week during his lunch hour to say hi. She's always happy to see us and Wilson likes to fill her in on all the stuff we've been up to. The boys love getting in her cage with her - I don't think she minds it too much either. The staff there really like her as well and Nathan's been in a few times when they had her door open to let her wander around the office. We were happy, if not surprised, to know that they think she's good company, too. We can't wait to bring her home!

 



Thursday, August 16, 2012

Upgrade

Nathan wasn't thrilled with his cute and boxy commuter car. I think his main complaints were the color and the fact that it kind of felt like driving a golf cart with the small engine. The interior was also pretty dated - think black background with neon blue stripes and magenta dots throughout. No major complaints, just a bunch of little ones. Since it's PCS season there are a bunch of cars wanted and for sale pretty cheap around the base. We had our eyes peeled, found this car and got a great deal on it. The paperwork was a bit of a hassle but not too bad, and we sold the other car within a few days.  I don't think we'll be upgrading again since we're pretty happy with our new little car.




I should mention that Nathan is generously letting me drive it and is taking the minivan (yes, I'm admitting it is one now!) to work. I think it's pretty fun to drive, but pretty soon I'm sure I'll go back to my standard housewifemobile and let Nathan take the cuter car.
Thanks, babe!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Moving in


Our stuff is here!
I was pretty thrilled all of our things were finally here and the boys were pretty excited to watch all the action. I had to set up chairs wherever the movers were working so that the boys didn't get too close and try to "help."


Here is our box spring going over the balcony.


I knew they were going to do put the couch over the balcony as well, but I wasn't sure when. I looked up at one point and this is what I saw. I didn't make it outside to take a better picture - they were pretty fast!

The movers were great and so efficient.  They of course took their shoes off every time they came in, which was something to see when they were carrying heavy things.  They were also very sweet with the boys.  In the afternoon, I had Leo down for a nap upstairs and Wilson and I were unpacking a room downstairs. All of the sudden a mover came in holding Leo and said he heard him talking in his room. I thought that was pretty funny.
Here's Leo going over the inventory with his favorite mover.


We're in the midst of unpacking and it's fun seeing our things in this house. It is definitely helping to make it feel more like our home. I'll post pictures as we get the rooms together. Up first are the kitchen and playroom... essentials, of course!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Good news

We've been living out of our suitcases for 75 days now.  Yes, we counted.

We've learned a lot of things. Here are just a few of them. The boys affectionately call one of them their toy box and don't care that it is in fact a suitcase. We've had our clothes in heavy rotation and no matter who says you only wear 10% of your wardrobe, sometimes you do need to throw in a different look to keep from going crazy.  We probably don't need half (3/4ths?) of the stuff we own. I'm a bit embarrassed about how much I miss my kitchen scissors... all 3 pairs.

We just found out today that our stuff will be here Thursday! So, lots of unpacking coming up, but we're happy it did not fall off the boat and we'll finally be able to get settled.
Yay, stuff!

Saturday, August 4, 2012

USS Denver

They opened up the ships for tours this weekend, and we had a ball touring the USS Denver.  There were a few ships open to see. It was neat to be able to go on one of them because we see them on the base every day. There were mostly Japanese people on the tours with us and they LOVED the ships. They were taking tons of pictures and couldn't get enough of the souvenir booths that the crews had set up. The crews on each ship were really friendly and seemed to be proud while showing off their ship.

The Bonhomme Richard is a huge carrier and was the most popular. Nathan's already been on that one, so he wanted to go on the Denver, which is the 2nd oldest ship in the Navy. It's much smaller, but was still really cool to see.  The Denver's main purpose is picking up and transporting Marines and their equipment. They showed us where they store all the Marines tanks and weapons and we also got a private tour of the Marines bunks! The guide was telling us how the ship's Navy crew capacity is about 250, but they can hold about 400 Marines on board. Nathan and I were joking that they must pack them in like sardines and I told her my brother was a Marine. She took us to their bunks and they were so squeezy even the boys had trouble getting in them! Here they are testing them out, the bunks were 4 high. Hi Uncle Clifford!


Here's Leo testing out the Captain's chair.
Is being able to see out the window a requirement for the job?


Wilson works on his sailor skills.


Thanks for the tour, USS Denver! It was lots of fun.

Sports camp

We signed Wilson up for a 4 day sports camp this last week and had fun watching him test out some new skills. Each day, the kids and Coach worked on a different sport. There was basketball, soccer, football and baseball. We had fun watching him try different things, but really he enjoyed laughing and running around with the other kids best of all. Here's a glimpse of our future hall of famer on baseball day :)

The kids were so cute during warm-ups every day.
Here they are doing their jumping jacks.



Did you know there are currently 2 major leaguers with the first name Wilson?




Coach ended each day with a cheer.



Soccer season starts in September!